10 Post Break Up Stages That Everyone Goes Through!
Breakups can be hard and painful.
A person might seem relatively unfazed by a breakup but that’s really not the case. The true picture is a different one! To get over someone you were once close to is no cake walk and people tend to take to silly things during this time.
Listing a few things that happen after a breakup!
1.) Pretending to be ‘Fine’!
You might cry yourself to sleep but would make it a point to show as though you’re unperturbed by the breakup.
2.) Serious stalking stage!
You tend to switch on your stalking mode and end up becoming a ‘serial stalker’. You start to stalk your ex over every possible social media platform. Name it and you’d be there, just there, stalking your ex!
3.) Getting drunk!
Who doesn’t get drunk during this phase? It’s quite normal to get drunk after a breakup and that’s exactly what everyone does! Get drunk and blabber about your past relationship.
4.) Show the world that it feels awesome to be single!
You might be dying inside but oh! You have to portray as though you’re having a gala time after your break up and that you couldn’t be happier.
5.) Rebound? Yes. Please!
Rebounds don’t help but after a breakup, people lose their sensibility and give in to such things. They feel as though only another person can make them get over their break up, which definitely makes no sense and doesn’t hold true.
6.) More time with friends!
The only positive aspect of a break up is this that you end up spending more time with your friends. You start hanging out a lot more than you used to!
7.) Becoming allergic to relationships!
All of a sudden, you start becoming commitment-phobic. You feel as though being in relationship will only hurt you and will never do you any good.
8.) Hate your ex!
Oh! Irrespective of what the reason might have been behind your break up, you just can’t help but hate your ex. Your ex might not even be at fault yet you make it a point to hate your ex. It’s illogical but umm... that’s how it is.
9.) Time to keep busy.
Keeping busy actually helps because you don’t get the time to think about your past and you, eventually, stop brooding over your past.
10.) Getting over it all!
Shit happens and that’s okay! You, gradually, get used to your life and you, no longer, curse your ex or your past.